Is It Self-Sabotage Or Attachment Wounding?
Published at : 07 Dec 2021
There's a common misconception about having an anxious attachment style, an avoidant attachment style or a fearful-avoidant attachment style, which is that the associated behaviors are maladaptive. But this is only true *in a particular context.*
What gets ignored too often in the attachment discourse is the strategic intelligence of our earliest impulses. Because our attachment styles are formed in a vacuum. And we do not heal them in one either.